Marriage

Now i know marriage is a hassle things to do

many things to prepare
many decisions to be made

organise how a wedding would be
buy wedding bands
choosing wedding gowns and shoes

taking wedding photos
booking of hotels for dinner

etc....

too many to list out what to prepare

why cant a marriage be more simple?

sometimes people had grand wedding and makes the whole world know about their marriage
but they also the whole world know about their break up

having a grand wedding doesnt mean to have a lasting marriage
many had grand times before
but consequences they had was divorced

i used to afraid of marriage cos i dun wan my marriage to be like my parents
now im confused

cos if i were to married
i will not let my family break away
unless baby betrayed me or vice versa

but how many things are predictable?
many people said they can have divorced if not compatible
then WTF they married in the 1st place?

might as well cohabit 1st
get to know each other more than marry

but according to survey
most divorced cases are those who have cohabit before

for those without cohabit
their marriage last longer

well i think it all depends on both parties
if 1 party dun wan to hang on to the relation
then no matter how the other party wanted also no use

sometimes its useless to cling on to someone who had no feelings for you
when its time to let go
it really means let go

i jus hope everyone around me will have a happy family