Singapore guys or rather Asian guys does not really understand the Art of Making Love and many of them would jus rush "In" and rush "Out" without giving ample time for the Ladies to know what's going on
Ladies / woman does not reach climax so easy and therefore foreplay is very important in the begining of every love making
Most of the guys lack of patience and tactics to arouse the ger.. well guys u got to admit this unless u are trained by professional
ok here are some tips for GUYS (only) on "Foreplay" - 5 Steps
1. Roope-a-dope
For clitoral stimulation
Tool: Tongue
- Start with a slowly, rhythmic tongue strokes
- lick from the bottom to top that cover the full span of the ger inner labia and ends with her clitoral head
* REMEMBER!! No matter how a ger get work up, keep it slow and easy can consistent. DUN SPEED IT UP JUS BECOS SHE IS AGITATED.
- Hit her with a series of fast vertical and disgonal tongue strokes on her clitoris
- Return to slow and easy strokes
** well repeat until the ger break out in cold (i know its tiring but practise makes perfect)
Why it works
This method eases her gently into clitoral stimulation. The clitoral is extremely sensitive at the outset. By doing the above, you will start the blood flowing where it become swollen and thats when you are half way to climax. (note: sometimes burst of vigour can add surprise and faster orgasm reached. Eg: suddenly slap her butt with 2 hands when she's on top of u
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2. Heart of Palm
Clitoral stimulation, with optional G-spot stimulation
Tool: your hands
- Rest on ur side cos u have the whole nite (means lie at her side facing her with ur whole body)
- Place ur hand over her vulva, pressing on her pubic mound (fleshy area above the vulva) with the base of your palm. let ur fingers drape against her entire vulva
- Use ur index / middle finger to make rhythmic come-hither gestures along her vaginal entrance
- Lightly stimulate her clitoral head with ur fingertips (but not to gently like touching a baby cos ger wont feel anything if u dun press enough for her to feel)
- Insert 2 fingers pressing them up against the front wall of the vagina (inside)
- Simultaneously stimulating her clitoris and G-spot
Why it works
This method stimulates her entire vulva, the location of nerve endings that are often ignored
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3. Head-to-head
Clitoral stimulation
Tool: Penis
Think of ur penis as one of many tools in ur sexual survival kit and remember to use it occasionally outside her vagina.
- Focus on shallow thrusts
- Barely penetrate her vagina. Jus let ur penis rest inside her
- Linger, loiter, meander (wander). Press the head of ur penis against her clitoral head
- OR press the shaft of ur penis against her clitoris and gently thrust between the folds of her labia without entering her
- When u penetrate deeply, press ur pelvic bone against her clitoris and hold the position
Why it works
Oh man.. u are hitting theG-spot "hot spots". As many of the nerve endings that contribute to orgasm are on the surface of her vulva and within the 1st inch or so of her vaginal entrance. When u penetrate deeply and hold, the sense of closeness combined with the clitoral sensation will overwhelm her.
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4. Upward and Onward
G-Spot Stimulation
Tool: Hand, vibrator, penis
G-spot is roughly the diameter of a five-cent coin. Its on the front wall of the vagina, a few inches in. You can feel it swell during arousal and think of it as an area rather than a spot. It responds to firmer pressure than the clitoris does. So ur fingers or a vibrator sometimes will work better then penis.
- Place an inch or two of the vibrator inside her vagina
- Lift the vibrator to press her G-spot
- Bring her legs together around the vibrator and stimulate her clitoris with ur tongue
- During intercourse, stimulate her G-spot by entering her from behind (doggy style) and press down on it
- one hand to massage her pubic mound which will stimulate her G-spot from outside
Why it works
G-spot orgasms don't happen indepently of clitoral orgasms. Spot may be the root of the clitrois. Always combine clitoral and G-spot stimulation or at least alternate regularly
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5. The multiple warhead
Multiple orgasms
Tool: Tongue, hand, penis, vibrator, patience
Woman can have multiple orgasms becos they retain blood in the pelvic area after orgasm. Clitoris jus need a bit of time to recover becos it becomes overly sensitive after orgasm
- Return to foreplay. Focus on gentle full body stimulation then ...
- Gradually introduction clitoral stimulation. Use a hand to gently tease her vulva (use fingertip to trace the perimeter of her inner labia ~ guys pls cut ur nails before using)
Alright finally... its the moments after orgasm that a man proves if he's an erotically civilised adult.
MEANS DUN FORGET TO CUDDLE!!!
* Above information are taken out from "Men's Health September 2005" pictures are from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Main_Page
Ladies / woman does not reach climax so easy and therefore foreplay is very important in the begining of every love making
Most of the guys lack of patience and tactics to arouse the ger.. well guys u got to admit this unless u are trained by professional
ok here are some tips for GUYS (only) on "Foreplay" - 5 Steps
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1. Roope-a-dope
For clitoral stimulation
Tool: Tongue
- Start with a slowly, rhythmic tongue strokes
- lick from the bottom to top that cover the full span of the ger inner labia and ends with her clitoral head
* REMEMBER!! No matter how a ger get work up, keep it slow and easy can consistent. DUN SPEED IT UP JUS BECOS SHE IS AGITATED.
- Hit her with a series of fast vertical and disgonal tongue strokes on her clitoris
- Return to slow and easy strokes
** well repeat until the ger break out in cold (i know its tiring but practise makes perfect)
Why it works
This method eases her gently into clitoral stimulation. The clitoral is extremely sensitive at the outset. By doing the above, you will start the blood flowing where it become swollen and thats when you are half way to climax. (note: sometimes burst of vigour can add surprise and faster orgasm reached. Eg: suddenly slap her butt with 2 hands when she's on top of u
********************
2. Heart of Palm
Clitoral stimulation, with optional G-spot stimulation
Tool: your hands
- Rest on ur side cos u have the whole nite (means lie at her side facing her with ur whole body)
- Place ur hand over her vulva, pressing on her pubic mound (fleshy area above the vulva) with the base of your palm. let ur fingers drape against her entire vulva
- Use ur index / middle finger to make rhythmic come-hither gestures along her vaginal entrance
- Lightly stimulate her clitoral head with ur fingertips (but not to gently like touching a baby cos ger wont feel anything if u dun press enough for her to feel)
- Insert 2 fingers pressing them up against the front wall of the vagina (inside)
- Simultaneously stimulating her clitoris and G-spot
Why it works
This method stimulates her entire vulva, the location of nerve endings that are often ignored
********************
3. Head-to-head
Clitoral stimulation
Tool: Penis
Think of ur penis as one of many tools in ur sexual survival kit and remember to use it occasionally outside her vagina.
- Focus on shallow thrusts
- Barely penetrate her vagina. Jus let ur penis rest inside her
- Linger, loiter, meander (wander). Press the head of ur penis against her clitoral head
- OR press the shaft of ur penis against her clitoris and gently thrust between the folds of her labia without entering her
- When u penetrate deeply, press ur pelvic bone against her clitoris and hold the position
Why it works
Oh man.. u are hitting the
********************
4. Upward and Onward
G-Spot Stimulation
Tool: Hand, vibrator, penis
G-spot is roughly the diameter of a five-cent coin. Its on the front wall of the vagina, a few inches in. You can feel it swell during arousal and think of it as an area rather than a spot. It responds to firmer pressure than the clitoris does. So ur fingers or a vibrator sometimes will work better then penis.
- Place an inch or two of the vibrator inside her vagina
- Lift the vibrator to press her G-spot
- Bring her legs together around the vibrator and stimulate her clitoris with ur tongue
- During intercourse, stimulate her G-spot by entering her from behind (doggy style) and press down on it
- one hand to massage her pubic mound which will stimulate her G-spot from outside
Why it works
G-spot orgasms don't happen indepently of clitoral orgasms. Spot may be the root of the clitrois. Always combine clitoral and G-spot stimulation or at least alternate regularly
********************
5. The multiple warhead
Multiple orgasms
Tool: Tongue, hand, penis, vibrator, patience
Woman can have multiple orgasms becos they retain blood in the pelvic area after orgasm. Clitoris jus need a bit of time to recover becos it becomes overly sensitive after orgasm
- Return to foreplay. Focus on gentle full body stimulation then ...
- Gradually introduction clitoral stimulation. Use a hand to gently tease her vulva (use fingertip to trace the perimeter of her inner labia ~ guys pls cut ur nails before using)
Alright finally... its the moments after orgasm that a man proves if he's an erotically civilised adult.
MEANS DUN FORGET TO CUDDLE!!!
* Above information are taken out from "Men's Health September 2005" pictures are from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Main_Page
Comments
nice entry siah~~!! i like~ wahahhahaha!!!!
can try reading cosmopolitan magazines for some more info.. i remember reading up one issue with the different positions... different pros n cons of each position in terms of climax and ease... but not cheap magazine... but very informtative...
tells u wat the guys crave for n how they wanna b satisfied..same thing for gers too... =)