Love . Trust . Appreciate .

Some people think that they are the best of all people. Everything has to be their way. Anything not going according to their way, they get angry and pissed off at the person who get in their way.  After making everyone pissed off, they still think they are right and everyone should bow to them.  Everyone has a choice and a chance to make things right. Some people just dont see the correct way most people should see. Everyone has their own problem and when you vent your anger on your friends because you have a problem with your own problem, you make everyone pissed off at you. What for?  Some people just dont learn to take things easy and always so sensitive to people words. Dont understand why they bother so much about how others look at them. Its not about confidence, its about their pride and ego. How low can you put your pride and ego among friends and family? Everything want to win and thus the winner is you and you lose all your friends. 

Many years back where MSN was the IN thing and everyday after work, i will go back home and chat online. Now, nobody use MSN anymore and all is about Whatsapp, Viber, Line where we can chat in the handphone anytime anywhere. Dont need to go home and on the computer to chat. Technology has made everything convenient for us but then less personal touch and contact. Everyone go out is looking at the handphone and playing in their own world. It has become a habit and thats why people dont communicate in the correct way.

My new plant at work: Money plant.

Soap factory by AdamHue is located at 200 Turf Club Road, #04-15 The Grandstand, Singapore 287994.  Course available: 1. Soap making 2. Lip Balm making 3. Lotion making 4. Candle making (soy wax) All ingredients are organic and is safe for kids and adults.  

A place where i always wanted to go. Uyuni Salt Lake. Its not an easy journey to go from Singapore but seeing the photos of Uyuni Salt Lake, i think its worth to go there once in a lifetime. It is said that this place is the nearest place to heaven as its location i s  11,995 ft above mean sea level. Some might have difficulties in breathing towards the lake. Ref:  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Salar_de_Uyuni 

Old company, new management; what are the chances of good chemistry that will evolve? Beginning of this year, we have changed our MD and with this new MD, he has brought in more foreign talent of his own race/culture. It's a natural instinct that people are more comfortable with their own culture/race/country. The main difference we see is whoever is in power can bring in their own people to the company. Previously the Indians are in power and he brings in all the Indians to this company. Now the Indian have lose the power and new management bring in more European. Though the Indian still remains in company but they have not much said about anything. With the new management in, many things have changed and now is a good start when they implement flexi hours to staff. We can choose to work from 8-5, 9-6 or 10-7. I have changed my work time to 8-5 where I have more time to bring Grant out during the evening. Now we have time to go swimming and exercise after...

Ever since I announced that I am pregnant in workplace, my workload has reduced and I feel so useless. They think pregnant woman cannot handle things. Especially the top management where they think pregnant is a liability to them. They have to give me 4 months maternity leave and after maternity leave, kids will fall sick and will take more leave to look after the baby. Sometimes when the top does not understand what a mother go though and will think that we are only trying to find excuses. If there is someone at home looking after the baby, who wants to take leave? I wish not to work if I can when my baby is less than 2 years old. That's the time where they are the weakest and need the most attention. But I dun think I can do that for my 2 nd baby. At least Grant is more fortunate to have me with him for at least 1.5yrs before he went childcare centre. End of May, my baby is 20 weeks old and had went for a detailed scan at Thomson Medical. My baby is a gir...

I feel more energetic this month and keep moving around. Doing the housework and make myself sweat out during house chore.  Wee is helping Melvin to teach diving and every weekend they will go Tioman to teach diving. I will bring Grant out every weekend to TW and hospital to visit ah gong. Ah gong has been admitted to hospital due to virus attack in the breathing tube. Before that he has a tube inset in the nose so that he can eat. Nobody can understand how pain that is and because of the doctor said, we have to put. I wonder the doctor really knows their work or just from the books. Most of the doctors do not have experience and fresh grads only work with the knowledge from books. How many percent of the books can be applied to the real sick? Even the doctor has no confidence. They are also trial and error and to be careful, they think some methods can save the lives of people by putting equipment in the body and making the sick feel uncomfortable. It hurts to see a...

By end of April, baby is about 15 weeks in my tummy. My morning sickness is slowly fading and not much vomiting. Aint too tired and doesn't crave for anything at the moment. Eat simpler and only prefer soupy food than meaty dry food. Appetite not that good due to morning sickness but I can feel im putting weight fast. At 12 weeks, I went for the OSCAR scan and weight about 67kg. The weight did not go up fast but I feel my fats are growing fast and all the shorts are not able to wear anymore. This pregnancy I should control my diet unlike the 1 st one where I have gained 20kg and had a difficult time to slim down. I must always remind myself that no husband would like a fat and haggard wife. So we as a wife should always maintain our figure and make our husband feel comfortable and be proud of us. 

We have many March birthday babies in our family. Our father, Grant, Chelsie, Me, Angeline and Zhenny. We had a simple celebration on pa birthday and all the March babies took photo together. Fenny also announce that her 2 nd baby is coming this year and just after me. Next year there will be a chaos in TW with all the children and babies around. Can't imagine all the shouting and crying going on. Maybe that's why some childcare teacher beat up the kids in the centre. Hope we don't become like the sick teacher.