Grant has been going to childcare for 2 weeks. Everything is getting better and he listen to me better too. Last time he seems like playing on his own and dont really care what im talking. Even when i talked to him he will just carry on his own mind.
But now, he listen to me and seems to grow up alot in the sense of maturity. He knows what is going around him and observe others more rather than seeing himself only.
I know its hard for him to be in childcare whole day and i would very much like my mum to take care of him if possible. Cos i know my mum wont pamper him like wee mum. Im really scare wee mum to take care of him becos she is teaching dexter the wrong way.
I wont want grant to be like him. She teach him to lie thought not directly but when she lie infront of him, he learns and think that lying is no big deal. Example: when dexter mum asked wee mum whats he's doing now, she would reply that he's studying for spelling but the truth is that he is watching TV.
Though i saw and heard it once but that one time is enough for me not to trust her. She can lie to her own daughter for the sake of dexter not being scold. Then when i ask her about grant, imagine what she would reply. Im more strict than dexter mum and expect him to learn well. This means more "white lies" will be told when i asked about grant if she take care of him.
That's why my motto is
EVERYTHING MUST DEPEND ON MYSELF
But now, he listen to me and seems to grow up alot in the sense of maturity. He knows what is going around him and observe others more rather than seeing himself only.
I know its hard for him to be in childcare whole day and i would very much like my mum to take care of him if possible. Cos i know my mum wont pamper him like wee mum. Im really scare wee mum to take care of him becos she is teaching dexter the wrong way.
I wont want grant to be like him. She teach him to lie thought not directly but when she lie infront of him, he learns and think that lying is no big deal. Example: when dexter mum asked wee mum whats he's doing now, she would reply that he's studying for spelling but the truth is that he is watching TV.
Though i saw and heard it once but that one time is enough for me not to trust her. She can lie to her own daughter for the sake of dexter not being scold. Then when i ask her about grant, imagine what she would reply. Im more strict than dexter mum and expect him to learn well. This means more "white lies" will be told when i asked about grant if she take care of him.
That's why my motto is
EVERYTHING MUST DEPEND ON MYSELF
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