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My ah gong (part 4)

finally ah gong is going to AMK therapy centre today and i haven seen him since tue

eversince i start work, i am too tired to go visit him and only tue when ah fen is on leave and she came over to drive me to visit ah gong

that day when i saw ah gong he seem to be in a good mood and look very fresh

but he seem to be very sad at the same time

i jus feel that he is trying to get his attention from his sons cos he needs company and his sons are all busy to keep him company

well xiao jiu will go visit him everyday during lunch time and after work also will visit him

now when mum wanna go home at night, ah gong will get angry and dun let mum go home cos he wans her to company him during night time as he said he is scare of dark and at night he will make alot of noise in hospital cos he wans his children to be with him

i understand when parents wans their kids to be with them when they are old cos sometimes they know their time gettin near

they jus wan to spend more time with their kids

sometimes i wonder why they have time to go for the funeral but they have no time to visit their parents

nowadays people are always busy working or rather socialising and thats why they have no time to see their parents


whats the use of going to funeral when parents cant even talk to their kids

sometimes i get so angry when i cant do anythin cos this isnt my business and i have no rights to interfere in their adults affairs

i dun really care that much now.. cos im so sick of all this thing

i jus wan a simple life with my baby now

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