Love . Trust . Appreciate .

For the month of June, we have some quality time for the 3 of us. Going to picnic and Universal Studio as a family makes bonding easier.  Last time, we hardly have time to go out as a family as Wee is working shift and during weekend, only me and Grant to spend time together. He hardly wants to go out with us as he rather go out with his friends. But now, at least he is spending more time with us as a family and i hope this time is not 三分钟热度。 It's not easy for us to go out together as and when we like. Our time for work makes us drift apart easily and thats the problem we have previously. Even though now we still not able to see each other like normal couple with normal working hours, we still will get sometime together. For jogging, picnic, playing basketball, to theme park...

Yesterday we Ex-AES knights received a sad news from our former teacher. The ex-principle of AES; Mr Marcell Lee; has a stroke and is in ICU. Teachers are asking us to write letters to him and teachers will read out to him as a motivation for him to get well. I have left school on 1999 and its been 13 years since I saw him. All I could remember him was kind to me, as I am not a bad student in school and that’s why I was invite to his office so frequent as others. The impression he gave me was kind, serious, strict and hardly a joker. Of course as a principle, there’s a certain image to be carry out to students. You cant get too close to students but not to the extent of being a stranger to us. We aint that close but still we have been seeing each other during my last few years in School. Seeing him every day in the morning assembly and hearing all the talks though I cant really remember what he had said all those years but it’s a routine. He always bring a smile whenever he walks...

When I needed a extra assistant to our team last year, none came. This year, due to my unhappy incident in family, i have took many leaves, MC which might have made me lose my creditability in work as a girl who are always in office and working hard at work. I was working real hard at work last year when no one helps me and i was alone setting up many projects which have caused me to neglect my family and which in turns makes me almost lose my husband to a bitch. Just becos i am working too hard at work. Whats the point when one works too hard and doesn't get the rewards equivalent to the hard work i have. This year, they get an assistance for our department and it was not a fresh hired staff. Someone who was transferred from Admin department and initially, they didnt even let us choose who we wanted. HR think we are rubbish and could throw us any person they dont want. The person we wanted, they hold on so tight that even the management are coming in...

We have our first picnic inside a tent at Changi beach. Though it wasn’t that perfect because of the loud sound of the plane flying in to Changi Airport behind the beach but we 3 really enjoy each companion. Enjoying the set up of tent and eating all the food which was bought last min at NTUC including the in king of fruits; Durian. Yummy! We have our quality time together and all the relax and fun moment. We were excited cos its our first time setting up the tent ever since we bought it few years ago. After picnic, went for a movie and it is also our first time bringing Grant to movie. He is so excited to watch Ironman but fall asleep half way thru. He has really enjoy our companion and I also enjoy my big and little baby companion. After our 1 st time, there’s going to be many outing together.

I have 2 best kakis birthday in May and they are June and tortoise. Their birthday are followed closely. 9th for June and 10th for tortoise. They are my secondary school friends and though we have graduated for more than a decade but we still try to meet up every few months. I'm glad we still in touch with each other. Things are getting better at home and we have more quality time together as a family. Though we can never have the pure trust like before but at least we both know that quality time is important to build up this family. Not only quality time between we 3 but also together with our own family and relatives. Hope this stay for long and no more crap and shit.