I have a bachelor friend. Someone who is good-looking, not yet 35, have a good career, good connection with the upper society, good public relation but is still SINGLE.
So, what's the problem of him being a single and not even attached.
Someone who is too picky, doesn't settle down for less quality, always wants the best, etc...
Is it good to always search someone who is the best instead of the 2nd best? What's so good being the best in everybody eyes, where in the heart he/she is the worst.
I used to search for the best man but then again, i realise, it's not the problem within the best man I wanted, the problem actually lies with me. Each relationships make people grown up, building up self defense, how to love, realise that true love doesn't really exist in this world anymore.
Lies and tears makes me more emotionless, stone-hearted, cynical about the true love within man. Nothing is true about fantasy love and that's why its call fantasy. Dream is only dream. Dream lovers always stay in the dream. When dreaming stop, one still have to wake up and face the reality. Sometimes, truth hurts.
Everyone has their flaws and only depends on whether I can accept or not. If i keep changing my boyfriends to look for a better one, when will i finally find a better one or even the best one?
When it's time to stop searching, it's time to stop. Stop searching and start accepting his good and bad. Nothing comes easy and to maintain a relationships is the tougher thing to do in the world.
Though i cant say i have accepted all the flaws in my hubby, but at least i have stop searching for the best. Nothing is the best except having a partner when you are old and still holding hands while having a stroll.
So, what's the problem of him being a single and not even attached.
Someone who is too picky, doesn't settle down for less quality, always wants the best, etc...
Is it good to always search someone who is the best instead of the 2nd best? What's so good being the best in everybody eyes, where in the heart he/she is the worst.
I used to search for the best man but then again, i realise, it's not the problem within the best man I wanted, the problem actually lies with me. Each relationships make people grown up, building up self defense, how to love, realise that true love doesn't really exist in this world anymore.
Lies and tears makes me more emotionless, stone-hearted, cynical about the true love within man. Nothing is true about fantasy love and that's why its call fantasy. Dream is only dream. Dream lovers always stay in the dream. When dreaming stop, one still have to wake up and face the reality. Sometimes, truth hurts.
Everyone has their flaws and only depends on whether I can accept or not. If i keep changing my boyfriends to look for a better one, when will i finally find a better one or even the best one?
When it's time to stop searching, it's time to stop. Stop searching and start accepting his good and bad. Nothing comes easy and to maintain a relationships is the tougher thing to do in the world.
Though i cant say i have accepted all the flaws in my hubby, but at least i have stop searching for the best. Nothing is the best except having a partner when you are old and still holding hands while having a stroll.
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