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When one grows up, they start to leave

I am msn-ing to my cousin, Zi Kai, who is only pri 3 and he used to be a very naughty boy where he talks rude and shout at us. We used to dislike him because he is really no manners and our family cant stand naughty children. Maybe thats why our children are naughty too.

Now they have all grown up and the eldest sister, Xiang Ying, who has just went to US for further studies and she is only 16 years old. They are lucky and fortunate to have the good God-Parents whom take care of them since young. Providing everything they need and even school fees included.

How I wish to have someone sponsor me for studies when I was young. Concentrating all on studies and not having to give up where financial is a problem. And now, I would not have to study O level at this age though age is not a problem in studying.

Just now i ask him where is his another sister, Xiang Ting. She has went out to play basketball and haven went home. It's going to 9pm and she's still outside. During my time, at this hour, we have to be at home. It's not something that our parents said so but then it's just automatic that we prefer to stay at home watching tv.

They are just like us. When all grow up, they start to leave the house. Think it's just a natural re-cycle that happens in every family.

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