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Sometimes i feel that im better off to be a single mother
most of the time im alone with grant and im taking care of him alone

wee is always working and sleeping
i know he is tired after work and the time he spend with grant and me so much lesser after deducting his sleeping time

maybe thats what working life is
most of the marriage life fails because couple dont understand each other situation and didnt communication well

someone ought to speak out rather than waiting for each other to say before time makes this marriage fails

Maybe i have phobia in marriage and didnt really plan well
we should have our own house before having a baby
not say living with in law is bad but everyone has different habits
years accumulate of bad & good habits are hard to accept by others

sometimes i find it hard to live with wee cos of his habits too
different background and brought up really needs to give and take

i hope this part of my life can passby asap

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