I really need to vent it out Why have I to suffer all the unneccessary mind torture Before marriage, i have to worry about teck whye financial. Every month worry about the house loan and now i have to worry about my husband financial debt. Its been 2 years and the credit card debt is still not cleared. I have no house, no financial secure, no happiness here. I'm living off my in-law and that makes things worse. The only thing i can do is to pay the monthly power supply which cost $150. They still want us to pay the starhub bill which $88 and we hardly can survive on our peanuts pay. Every month we have to pay so many things and becos of the car loan, we cant do much. I really wonder why I have married a no planning man. Making my life in a financial mess and I cant have a better life.